Story of time 

The communication between people is the communication of value
In fact, many people still don’t understand the truth when they reach the age of 30 or 40. Interpersonal communication is often an exchange of value. Why do people help you, why do you help others? Everyone’s time and energy are limited. Why do people want to help you? No one is boring and doing nothing. People who have something to do with you are more or less profitable, because human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. When you have no value, look at your friends, relatives, and relatives around you.
Don’t say who is realistic, if you change to be you, you may not be much better than him.

The interaction between people is essentially an exchange of value. In daily life, whether on campus or in the workplace, as long as we exist in this society, we will inevitably have intersections with other people and will have our own interpersonal relationships. We use our own strengths to exchange the strengths of others, whether it is family members, colleagues, or business negotiations, to achieve our goals through exchanges.

So when you have no value, you should strive to make yourself strong and outstanding, so that others can see your value. Try to increase the value of your being used. Don’t feel that being used is an angry thing. When you are being used, it means that you still have the value of being used. It also means that you have high value. The scarcer the value of, the higher the quality of your circle of friends, and make a valuable circle of friends. Exchange is not unilateral. When you have more and more needs in terms of survival, money, emotions, etc., and you cannot satisfy yourself, you will seek support from others, and value exchange begins.