Story of time 

Do we often receive the belief that you are not good at math and your logical thinking is not careful enough. Your skin is darker, so it’s not beautiful. You learn to drive a driver’s license, and you will easily become a “killer” on the road after three times. These so-called bad things will stay in your own subconscious. Being fixed by yourself is my weakness. If I can’t do these things well, I will avoid these things that I am not good at in the future.

Maybe these are not your real performance, but you will find all kinds of reasons and excuses to prove that you are really bad at these weaknesses. When you want to count next time, you will have self-doubt unconsciously. My math is really bad. Did I make a mistake? When you were selected by the company to wait for the lady of manners, your mind was the first to come out. I am not a beautiful woman and I am ugly because I am dark. When you drive on the road by yourself, you will be very cautious and worried, because I may become a road killer accidentally, because I only passed the exam three times, so I can’t drive. It’s very possible. Become a road killer.

In any case, these beliefs are based on other people’s judgments of ourselves, and we are appropriately seated. They are not our true facts. This is the unfair criticism of us from the outside world, which makes us automatically enter the predicament of self-limitation. . When we face the same predicament, our curiosity ceases, and the voice of self-denial in our hearts constantly pops up in our minds, making it difficult for us to think positively. Lost of reason and completely enter a state of self-denial, and continue to escape.

Facing this kind of negative self-limitation, to break the situation, we must first start with self-belief and establish correct and firm beliefs for ourselves. What others say may not be right. It is what others say about me. They have not seen the real me. I do not accept such unfair judgments that do not understand me. My real ability is not like this, nor is the real me. My idea is still correct. I have to recognize my true self, what kind of person am I, am I good at doing this, what is my true ability, and what is my true ability?

In addition, you must think about yourself rationally and think critically. Don’t blindly listen to outside voices. Perhaps outside voices are feedbacks to your actions, but that’s not your true side. You need to reflect on yourself whether you are like the outside world. As said, so as to make corrections.