Story of time 

Don’t always think that if you try your best to please others, others will like yourself. In fact, what others really see hope is your own ability. In many cases, others don’t care much about what you can bring to her or what you can do for him. What others care about is the talents, strength and other capital that you possess.
Your capital is where your value lies. It is what others are really interested in, and the point of concern is the criterion for judging how good or bad others’ attitudes toward you are.

Being able to see clearly that there is utilitarianism behind the indifferent and ruthless attitude of others, and the desire for money is controlling them, so you should strive to strengthen your strength and return all the suffering you have suffered. So the attitude of others towards you is very unfriendly, and even when you are underestimated, don’t make unnecessary arguments and explanations, learn to accept and face, and use your strength to give a beautiful counterattack. In many cases, the attitude of others towards you depends on your own value. This is a weakness of human nature. We cannot ask others to change, we can only strengthen ourselves.

If two people are in the same community, there are many interests involved, and it will naturally be difficult to reconcile and be beautiful! If at this time, you can still say a top ten, and no one dares to neglect you, then it is a proof of personal worth!

Suddenly, I feel so emotional. It’s because I can’t take care of my work and family, or I’m exhausted. I feel more and more that I am insignificant and incompetent. It is by no means humble, nor is it to avoid problems by myself, but it may be more comfortable to write! Because of poor work performance, I feel more and more strained with colleagues. Although everyone is tacitly aware of each other, everyone knows that they only want to make friends with temporary gainers, but they don’t bother to pay attention to defeated grass bandits like me. Some of the words I have said are like venting exhaust fumes, smelly! Human nature, animal nature. From this point of view, humans are as clever as animals, seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages.

Therefore, people can only see the essence of life when they are in a trough. Everyone is an exchange of interests. Don’t kidnap life with emotions.
Only by making yourself strong and generating value for others can you exchange more benefits for yourself and survive in the world. This is the real law of life.