Story of time 

Why do some friends just leave after some times?

Some once close friends don’t know when they started, and gradually they no longer have contact with each other again. It is also unclear why, maybe it is busyness that makes us drift away, maybe it is the distance that makes us scattered, maybe it is the gap that makes us no longer have nothing to talk about…Many people, just walk away; Many friendships have been squeezed into corners by work and life. It may be a little helpless to say so, but many friendships are indeed phased. Time and space are the two biggest killers of friendship.

We are not unfamiliar overnight. At the beginning, we still kept in touch. You showed me pictures of whales, and I told you about the appearance of deer. But after no longer participating in each other’s lives, it became difficult to start the topic, and the previous tacit understanding gradually disappeared. Perhaps this is the normal state of life, in fact, nothing happened, no specific waves, no big quarrels, or even There is no concluding remark, but we just don’t connect anymore, and then, we not only disappeared in each other’s lives, but also blurred in each other’s memory. A few years later, he became the one who used to be.

Although it is somewhat direct, it is still necessary to admit that one of the reasons for the weakening of the relationship between friends is that the gap in social resources, status, and knowledge has increased. Your distress cannot be understood by him, and his hesitation may be something of some kind to you. Show off in disguise. Colleagues can eat and chat together and play together, but it seems not easy to become a particularly good confidant. After all, everyone got together because of work, not to make friends. Moreover, when friendship is mixed with official business, it will become more complicated and worry more.

Leaving is the norm in life, and the people around you do come and go constantly, but there are always some people who have been with us for a long time and will stay with us for a long time.