Story of time 

There is a classic saying, “Human, know yourself”, which shows that it is not easy for us to correctly understand ourselves. As the so-called “authoritarian fans”, we are sometimes not good at knowing ourselves. We are not able to fully and accurately grasp our own image, strengths, weaknesses, hobbies, personality, temperament, abilities, etc. So, how do we know ourselves correctly?

First, be honest with yourself and stop deceiving yourself. Observe yourself in the circumstances you encounter. What emotions are you, what brain circuits, and how to solve problems. You can understand what kind of personality you are. Think about yourself outside of the existing dimensions, and what your own three views are as the prerequisite.

Second, accept reality and remain objective and rational. No longer deny reality, stop comforting yourself with positive thoughts, and stop avoiding reality with negative thoughts. You have to accept your own uncertainty and indefinability, so that you will not set limits on yourself and you can realize There are indeed countless possibilities for yours, and you can break free from the current short-term obstacles and problems to see the full picture of the facts and the world itself. A prerequisite for maintaining objectivity and rationality is that you have to learn to look at problems in a comprehensive manner and broaden your horizons.

Third, reflection and self-assessment. You have to accept the nature and uncertainty of reality so that you can recognize the truth of life. Reflect and summarize yourself often. Write more diaries and record yourself, summarize and be good at summarizing your strengths and weaknesses in a timely manner, and better grasp the physical self, psychological self and social self.