Story of time 

What is the most difficult thing? Someone once replied: “See yourself clearly”, yes, seeing yourself clearly is probably the hardest thing in the world. There are more and more social media, platforms to show your personal talents, and personal charms are endless. We all like to expose ourselves. On the bright side, what high-end ingredients we ate today, where we went into high-end clubs, and what high-level big coffee we talked with, we will all be exposed to our circle of friends. I will make my image more perfect and more high-end, We will make-up, we will be beautiful, we will be beautiful, we will rent a car with a facade, we will find a high-level title for ourselves. In order to enter the high-level circle, get good comments from others, and thus You get “satisfaction” and “superiority” in your heart. However, the image that is admired by others is yourself? Have you really known yourself from the inside out?

In many cases, our understanding of ourselves is based on the evaluation of ourselves by others. Others say that I am beautiful, and I am happy in my heart, thus forming a consciousness of being beautiful in my cognition. Others say that I am successful, and I will pretend to be low-key and hypocritical, but I am happy in my heart because I have been praised by others and praised by others. I feel that I am successful. But this so-called success does not necessarily mean that you have a strong ability, it may be that others see your good side. We are unhappy when others slander us, because other people’s evaluations attack me, hurt me, and destroy the “perfect image” in my mind. So unhappy, I didn’t expect the perfect image of my daily life to be so unbearable.

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. No one is perfect, and no one is perfect. But we all grow in the process of constantly improving ourselves. No matter how perfect people are, they always have their own shortcomings. However, only those who truly know themselves, know themselves from the inside out, instead of relying on others’ evaluations to recognize themselves, can they find the right direction and be able to understand themselves. The shortcomings really prescribe the right medicine. When we really know ourselves and be the true selves, we won’t care about other people’s evaluations, or other people’s judgments will no longer affect you.