The friend contacts is actually an exchange of resources, and the intersection is different. It is impossible to become friends.
If in your circle of friends, people often say bad things about you, then you should change people circles, which means that your outlook on life and values are no longer compatible with your current people circle.
If you are better than most of the people around you, then you should change people circles. The ancients said: “It is easy to make friends when you are rich, and it is easy to change your wife when you are rich.” This is the truth.
Human nature has a desire to seek knowledge and exploration. People pay attention to things and unknown information beyond their control, and are attracted by them, constantly imagining, exploring and even imagining.
Always maintain 30% mystery when interacting with people, because attraction will be transformed into charm.
The sense of mystery is the driving force that triggers the continuous advancement of attractiveness until the transformation of charm is completed. Staying mysterious not only makes you attractive, but also prevents you from revealing yourself too much.
In interpersonal communication, “outspoken” and “straightforward” are derogatory terms.
In the world of adults, unrestrained speech will inevitably lead to misfortune.
An outspoken person hurts and offends others. It is difficult for such a person to maintain personal connections.
People who are too sensitive will understand the pain of others, so naturally they cannot be “straightforward” easily.
The so-called “straightforwardness” is actually violence. For those who abuse violence, the most direct way is to use violence to control violence.
The relationship between adults: it starts with a straight heart and is destroyed by a quick mouth. It’s okay to be straightforward, but don’t be quick-spoken!
Story of time 
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