- People who talk about being altruistic are lying to you, but they are actually trying to benefit themselves.
The relationship between people must ultimately return to interests.
Relationships maintained by emotions are neither long-lasting nor strong. Only when interests are mixed in will the bonds be tighter.
After all, people will betray their feelings, but they never betray their own interests.
So, if you want to have friendship with the other party, don’t foolishly think that it is enough for you to have feelings, but have a transaction in it so that everyone can benefit from it. - Transactions are not only material transactions, but also spiritual transactions. For example, someone likes fishing, and you pretend to have this hobby, then you have something in common, and it will be easier to get closer. This is to meet the spiritual needs of the other party.
- No one is a fool. It is impossible to trade at a loss for a long time. Only when you can get something while paying, can it last for a long time. This world is very realistic. Anything you want, you have to trade with others.
Selfishness is the norm - Many people may tell you to be selfless and do more altruistic behaviors, but in essence, any altruism is ultimately for self-interest.
When doing a certain thing requires paying a cost, but there is no gain at all, it may be acceptable to do it once, but those who do it for a long time are too stupid.

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