Story of time 

When you have no value others are willing to communicate with you, then you are likely to be the leek in the eyes of others, your value is the value of leek, any relationship its essence is the exchange of value. When your value is not high enough, what you can do is patience, while constantly enriching your experience and increasing your value. When your value is high enough, you can exchange with the other person, or go elsewhere to find a place where you can harvest.’